WOULD YOU NOTICE?
Sister has stopped joining the others at meals.
She says, “I’m fine.”
But lately, she eats less, speaks less, and spends more time alone.
Would you simply accept “I’m fine”?
🔎 LOOK CLOSER.
A change in behaviour can sometimes be a way of communicating that something isn’t right.
Instead of immediately assuming she’s being difficult or simply doesn’t want company:
Notice.
Ask gently.
Listen.
Don’t rush to judge.
Share concerns when appropriate.
💭 YOUR TURN
What would YOU do first?
A. Leave her alone
B. Encourage her to join the others
C. Sit with her and gently ask how she’s doing
D. Ask someone else to check on her
👉 Tell us your answer in the comments—and why.
🌱 CSECNG MESSAGE
Sometimes care begins with noticing what others overlook.
Care for her. Care for yourself. Care is a shared responsibility.
Catholic Sisters Elderly Care Network Ghana (CSECNG)
Empowering the aged to do the extraordinary everyday.
